Matthew 27:15-22
so when the crowd had gathered, pilate asked them, “which one do you
want me to release to you; Barabbas or Jesus who is called the Christ”. (verse
17)
On the eve of my
eleventh birthday my sister whom I usually call Mum gave me a task of choice
making that affected my reasoning till date.”Do you want a car or money?” she said, I become perplexed on which
of the items to choose, while she was waiting for my response, I quickly
thought within me, I will spend the money quickly but I will prefer a car that
will boost my status among my peers so, I said ‘a car’, but to my utmost
disappointment she handed over to me a picture frame of Lamborghini, throughout
that night I was so sad and mad at my choice. Years later after knowledge has
increased I asked myself, what I want a car for at that age if not greedy and
the thought of immediate gratification. I then analysed the dynamics of choice
making and come these conclusion: there are two factors that affects our
decision making per time
(I) EXTERNAL
FACTORS: (a) how
people influence our actions and behaviour: Our actions revolve round how we are been
manipulated, intimidated or motivated to get things done. We easily do things
charismatic speakers, good analysts or creative negotiators who comes our way
convince us to do (b) the vogue mentality: most of our behaviours are not too far from fashion
or style of the moment, (c) what people say
about me:
We like to impress people around who mostly do not like us but will still want
to be in their good book. John Maxwell once said ‘We borrow the money we do not have to buy things we do not need to
impress the people who do not like us’ (d) Peer Pressure: Actions and responses of people is centred around
complying with “everybody is doing it
syndrome” come join us. About 75% people hooked on drugs in Nigeria, is
traceable to peer pressure (II) INTERNAL FACTORS; (a) My Value
System: Making choice is informed by
our belief system (b) My Self Worth:
Self esteem goes a long way in affecting the quality of decision made. There is
need to create an inner image of who you are not what people say you are. (c) Greed:
Most people make hasty decision due to impulse, most of this group of
people regret they actions later in life.
We are seldom given task of choice in our
daily life, but when we make the wrong choice, we feel bad, knowing that we
hastily made those choices without taking a deep thought on the outcome of our
choices. Any choice to be made based on advice should be well considered.
Bishop Thomas Aremu once said “Your
choice will determine your chance in life”. Most people in the crowd
shouted in favour of the release of Barabbas who does not really know the
implication of their choice, they made their choice based on external factor
and not based on internal factor.
PRAYER:
Lord, help me to inquire of you before
making any choice in my life. (AMEN).
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